國立彰化師範大學輔導研究所碩士論文

女男都愛的女性之伴侶抉擇

Mate-choosing of Female who Loves both Female and Male

研究生：李淑敬

指導教授：劉淑慧 博士

中華民國92年

摘　　　　　要   

本研究目的在瞭解女男都愛的女性發現自己愛上第二性別的心理歷程，以及對於伴侶關係的抉擇內涵與抉擇型態。本研究採用敘事研究方法，共訪談四位研究參與者，並以Lieblich, Tuval-Mashiach與Zilber（1998）的「類別—內容」分析取向整理訪談資料，但在摘節切割文字歸放類別之後，會將切割的文字段落放回整體故事脈絡觀看，以理解受訪者的經驗脈絡，是以於研究結果呈現受訪者不切割的故事文字，再就類別資料的整理歸納針對跨案例進行綜合討論與分析。

研究發現在心理歷程方面，女男都愛的女性在挑戰傳統二分思維與順應環境間顯得尷尬，不以異性戀/同性戀的二元分類來標示自己，但仍會在異性戀/同性戀社群間選邊站，而在拉扯中發展出自己的因應策略；傾向發展出雙重生活以減少環境的批判，然而以不同的態度看待雙重生活會產生不同的心理感受與心理調適。在伴侶抉擇的內涵方面，傾向選擇人與人的戀愛關係，而非選擇性別，也就是說，重點或許不是認同，而是對伴侶的感覺、對伴侶的受吸引程度，重點或許不是男或女的差別，而是在關係互動中能否產生平等與尊重的對等關係，重點或許不是同性伴侶關係與異性伴侶關係在社會中處境的差異，而是在不同處境中，個人願意做出何種選擇、願意付出哪種代價；也因此在抉擇型態方面，可以看到要做出非主流的選擇，就更需要以篤定投入的態度來看待決定。

最後，研究者說明本研究的限制，與自身在研究過程中的省思，並綜合研究發現、研究限制與研究者省思，而對輔導與諮商專業與未來研究提出建議。 

Abstract

The purpose of current research is to understand the psychological process of females who found herself love both females and males, and their choosing connotation and choosing types relative to partnership. Narrative approach was carried to the research. Totally, four research participants were interviewed. The collected data was analyzed in the way of 「categorical-content」 which was proposed by Lieblich, Tuval-Mashiach and Zilber（1998）. Additionally, in order to get familiar to the experiences and contexts of the interviews, once the summarized segmental text was categorized, it was put back to the holistic context and present to the readers. Therefore, the research results were presented in a holistic way without segmenting the text that collected from interviewees. Finally, a cross-case synthetically discussion and analysis were also carried to the categorized data to draw a conclusion.

In the aspect of psychological process, the research found that the females who love both females and males feel embarrassed when challenging traditional dichotomous thinking and situation accommodating. They do not identify themselves in such duality as heterosexuality/homosexuality. However, they still choose their stance between the groups of heterosexuality/homosexuality and develop their own strategies to cope with daily life in such surroundings. They tend to develop a dual life to reduce the critique from society and hence adopt different attitudes toward a dual life which would result in different psychological feelings and adopting. In the aspect of mate-choosing, they tend to judge by love relationship rather than gender. That is, they, perhaps, do not emphasize on identification but feelings toward their mates and the level of attraction to their mates; not gender but the existence of equality and respect in such a reciprocally relationship; not the differences in the social situation between heterosexual mate and homosexual mate but what choice an individual is willing to make and what cost an individual is willing to pay in the social situation. Therefore, in the aspect of choosing type, we may find that they need to adopt a confirmed attitude to treat their decision when they intend to make a not main stream choice.

Finally, the researcher illustrated the limits of the current study and introspection in the research process, and provides some advices to the followed research and to guidance and counseling profession.

關鍵詞:  雙性戀 ; 女同性戀 ; 異性戀 ; 伴侶抉擇 

英文關鍵詞:  bisexuality ; lesbian ; heterosexuality ; mate-choosing