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Being Forced to Give It Up

Lost Dream

Ocean

This morning, we the freshmen of NCU English Department were demanded to attend a meeting in which the candidate for the next chairman of the English Department delivered a speech about what he plans to do in the next three years.  When being asked about which aspect of schoolwork would he want to put more emphasis on, he said that what』s the most important was to improve the students』 ability of reading.  It means that, in his opinion, the ability to read and comprehend the texts or literatures would be much more highlighted during the next three years, and would become an essential and basic skill for all English majors.  His words reminded me of the things I had been afraid of and worried about since the day I decided to enter NCU English Department.

After taking the Joint College Entrance Examination, I started to gather information on all the universities with Foreign Language Departments or English Departments, for I had decided to major in foreign languages since I was a junior high school student.  I went to some informal discussion meetings, asked my teachers, my friends for pieces of advice.  One day, I went to listen to a speech at a cram school which introduced many national and private universities and their departments.  When the National Cheng Kung University, a university located in Tainan, and the distinguishing features of its Foreign Languages Department were introduced, I was totally attracted. 

This Foreign Language Department offers many courses that attracted me.  First, looking at the 45 courses listed, it is clear that the department puts much more emphasis on application, whether English or any other foreign languages, than any other English or Foreign Language Departments.  Moreover, the department even stresses on the relations between psychology and literature, including psychological analyses of how authors created masterpieces, and so on.  Due to my interest in psychology, I thought this might be the ideal school for me.  What』s the most attractive to me was that the department attaches much more emphasis to all kinds of foreign languages: German, French, Japanese, Russian, Spanish, as well as Chinese literature, than the other universities.  Therefore, being full of excitement and happiness, I was firmly determined to apply for it, and I could not help running home and was in haste to tell my mother this good news.

When I finally arrived home and merrily told my mother what I had learned in the cram school and my decision on application, the smile, excited facial expressions that I had imagined for hundreds of times on my way home didn』t turn up; instead, I was met with a worried, vexed response from my mother.  After several seconds of silence, she said, 「Do you know where NCKU is?」 

「Of course I know that it is located in Tainan, but, as long as I like it, distance is not the problem, right?」 

「No.  Certainly not.  But, it would be difficult for you to go there and back, and how would you move your baggage down there, by train?」 

「Mom, I am willing to move them by myself however difficult it would be, as long as that is the school I have been looking for.」   

「All right.  But, how about the cost of the train tickets?  Won』t it become a heavy burden of your living expenses? If you choose another one not as far from Taipei as NCKU is, everything will be much more convenient. And it will also be pretty easier for us to see you there.  Don』t you think it is too hardhearted to let a seventy-year-old grandmother spent several hours on the train just so that she could see her beloved daughter in Tainan?」 

Several seconds of silence ran between us.  I really wanted to say something to argue with her and fight for my ideal and dream.  Even though I shouted hundreds of times in my heart, I had nothing in reply.  I knew it.  I knew that the tuition was hard enough to afford, let alone the cost of the train tickets.  Moreover, how could I let my dear grandmother trudge over such a long distance to see me? 

『Alright.  Just let me think it over.  Good night.」  My eyes were brimming with tears while I walked out of the room.   I carefully hid them so as not to let my mother see them.  Right at that moment, I made up my mind.  I decided to give up my ideal school and dream.

Listening to the future chairman』s lecture, I understood that there was no way back.  In spite of regret, I realized that what』s more important was to grasp the time and chance in front of me instead of the past.  Therefore, I was determined to start over again.  I wanted to face the world again, and I know that I can』t miss any chances again.

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