Introduction
Feminism is not a new concept. Women have
defended their rights, as they perceived them, on various battlefields
throughout history. Even so, in the modern sense, Feminism can be said
to have begun around 1830's with the women's movement for suffrage.
Women, as a collective unit, stood together asserting their rights as
members of society to take equal part in the government that supposedly
represented them. They finally won that right in 1920. This movement is
now known as the First wave of Feminism. Some forty years later women
began mobilizing again. This Second Wave of Feminism rose out of the
demand of equal pay for equal work. They demanded the right to a
non-discriminatory work place, in which sexual harassment would be
legally punishable. They also fought for the right to abort unwanted
fetuses. The right to determine whether or not to have children. These
issues, in particular, galvanized the women taking part in the Civil
Rights movement. They won the fight (at least to some degree). This fact
has helped to give rise to a Third wave of Feminists with diverse ideas
of what Feminism means, where the women's movement should be heading,
and how to get there (Baker and Kline, 1996). My research was prompted
by a theory that Third wave Feminists were heavily influenced by a
generational effect. The idea was that women of Generation X (cohort
group with birthdates 1961- 1980) were not represented by the ideas of
the Second Wave, and that they were essentially striking out against the
idea of Feminism (Holtz, 1995). My theory was disproved by the research.
It this is true for a large part, but the link is not through a
generational effect. Women are attacking traditional ideas of Feminism,
but the causal events are much more varied. One of the predominant
indicators, it seems, of feminist identity is the issue of
motherhood.
Background
The concept of motherhood and child rearing was one of the central
debates of women's Civil Rights movement. Women such as Shulmaith
Firestone in The Dialectic of Sex, "called for artificial wombs
to free women from the restrictions of childbearing (Baker and Kline, p.
XV)." Germaine Greer's solution was to found "a huge baby farm in Italy
where children would be raised by a 'local family' and could
occasionally be visited by mothers and fathers (Holtz, p. 21)."
These were women who wanted to bring about a drastic change in the
way American society rejected men and all symbols of patriarchy
completely. They would remain single and childless, refusing the
shackles of the family unit (Baker and Kline).
The movement was not, however, burgeoning only from young, single,
non-mothers, but was also joined by women in families. These women were
fighting the inequity they saw in society and often in their own
households. Many already had children but were fighting the societal
obligation to have them. Many of them joined the movement to create a
world in which their daughters could grow up without the restrictions
they, as women, had faced. These women were often forced to fight a
two-front war. On one side was the status quo system of patriarchy that
sought to use their position as mothers to enslave them. On the other
was the hostility of more radical Feminists claiming them to be traitors
for allowing themselves to be enslaved to the "mommy track." They fought
this war and along with all the others helped establish a more equitable
environment for children whether seen as a joy or a necessary evil. The
daughters of these Feminists grew up, often fully aware of their
mother's activities. For many, involving their mothers was essential to
what they were doing. They were raised to question patriarchy and dogma.
They were taught to challenge the status quo. They have grown up in a
world, which their mothers fought for them to have one in which they are
protected, legally at least, from sexual harassment. One in which they
can expect to be anything they want to be. The big battles have been
won. This has led to the diversification of interests in the movement.
Third Wavers, no longer needing solidarity on issues such as equal
opportunity, can feel free to argue and splinter on issues like
abortion. They can choose not to get married or choose to have a large
family. This lack of unity and proper obeisance to the strictures of
their foremothers in the movement has led to a greater splintering among
Feminists and that is a generational splintering.
Identity
Formation
Family can be cited for its formation of feminist identity as the
primary socialization group. Women of the second and Third wave have
formed a large part of their identity around the issue of parenthood and
childhood. There are three predominant group identities examined in this
study. The First is that of the Second Wave radicals who attack the
institution of motherhood as a form of slavery and subjugation of women.
The second is that of Second Wave mothers and sympathizers that seek to
modify the role of women within familial institutions and enact change
from the inside out. Finally, there are the Third wave women, who,
though extremely diverse on social issues, are linked by their
structural position of acting from a position of a greater, even
assumed, equality to men. These three groups have been a primary cause
of identity formation for one another, and it is through their
interactions with and reactions to one another that the feminist
movement grows and changes.
Second Wave
Radicals
The radical Second Wave Feminists, as described, have rejected the
patriarchy completely including institutions of motherhood. They have
formed their identity around the belief that childbearing is used by the
patriarchy to enslave women. In American society, "Mothers are the
ideal, preferred caretakers of children (Gross, 1998, p. 270)." This is
expensive for women not only monetarily but also, and more importantly,
temporally. Women become mothers. This becomes their identity.
They become burdened with guilt when leaving their children in the care
of others, and the adequacy of their ability to mother becomes a daily
concern. This sort of enslavement to a child is absolutely rejected by
radical Second Wave Feminists. They find it essential to be independent
and free from restraints. They need to be free to pursue their own
interests and desires and this is impossible within the confines of
motherhood.
The sentiment of these Feminists is summed up in 1979's Kramer vs.
Kramer when Meryl Streep approaches her abandoned son saying, "I
have gone away because I must find something interesting to do for
myself in the world. Everybody has to and so do I. Being your mommy is
one thing but there are other things (Holtz, p. 21). "
The Second Wave radicals have shaped their identity around being a
feminist. They are often militant and judgmental of women that choose a
lifestyle of what they see as subjugation. The Second Wave radicals
reject their Second Wave sisters as either weak and complacent, or
trapped and overwhelmed. They resent Third wave Feminists for their
fractionary actions, and accuse them of having "'forgotten the
multifaceted political struggles of [their] Second Wave foremothers and
[are] swayed to ingratitude by a stilted vision of the Second Wave as a
privileged, homogenized movement typified by the National Organization
for Women (Detloff, 1997, p. 78)." In one account, a Second Wave
panelist was asked by a woman in the audience "What should young women
say to their feminist foremothers?" The response was "Thank You! (Clark,
1997)"
Second Wave
Mothers
Mothers joined the feminist movement in droves, eager to claim a
place for their children. They had families and were happy with them.
They felt social institutions needed to be reformed not decimated. Their
identity in a sense was formed by who they were as wives and mothers.
Many found Feminism as the crucial voice that helped them balance what
they wanted as a woman, and what they needed as a person. One woman,
Alix Kates Shulman, states, "Feminism reversed the submission and
compromise that were part of the surrender of marriage. I could carry my
children with me into the future we were creating (Baker and Kline, p.
89)." The friction between the Radicals and the Mothers was great even
during the Civil Rights movement, but at that time the two groups looked
beyond one another's "transgressions" for the good of all women. The
Second Wave Mothers were the moderates of the women's movement. They,
all along, sought equality and balance between the gender roles.
The Second Wave mothers were the first to really split on a major
issue from the movement. They rejected the idea that marriage and family
had to lead to subservience. While they rejected their cohort's
extremism, they had not gone so far as to reject the movement. The
hard-line attitude of the radicals is looked at, by most mothers, as
simply not for them but effective in instituting change. The Second Wave
mothers have reveled in the growth of equality in the United States and
the fact that young women today can take for granted all the work they
did. They see this "disrespect" as a sign of their success and a reward
for work well done. For their daughters to grow up assuming that they
are equal to men and that they deserve to have all the same rights and
privileges of men reaffirms their choice to be a mother and a feminist.
It validates who they are (Baker and Kline).
Third Wave
Women
Equal pay for equal work. A work environment free of sexual
harassment. The right to pursue any career. These assumptions are the
gift bestowed upon Third Wave women by their feminist foremothers.
However, the gifting has had consequences. With society now, for the
most part, accepting the idea that women are equal to men, women have
had time to look at their differences. Some take as their task to
actualize the phrase "equal pay for equal work" citing that "Women still
earn an average of only 71 cents on the dollar earned by men, according
to the Labor Department's Women's Bureau (Clark, 1997, p. 175)."
Others have focussed on rights to an abortion and preventing recent
attempts to overturn Roe v. Wade. Still others have fought to get better
health care and neo-natal care for unmarried women with no insurance.
The divisions have lessened the impact of the whole but have in a way
shown the maturity level to which the movement has grown. Third Wave
women no longer need to identify themselves as feminist. Third Wave
identity has been shaped by their foremothers to allow this. It is no
longer a revolutionary act to speak ones mind. It is no longer defiant
or occupational suicide to reject a superior's unwanted advances. Third
Wavers have been taught to question and think for themselves, at least
to some extent. Some, however, claim that their feminist foremothers do
not allow them to speak for themselves. For instance, one group, the
Generation GAP, was formed as a result of a 1995 National Women's
Studies Association conference in which "younger women at the conference
felt misrepresented, spoken for and spoken at but not heard (Detloff, p.
77)."
Many Third Wave women, such as, Elizabeth Fox-Genovese feel that the
Second Wave movement places too much importance on the women's movement.
As Fox-Genovese states in her book Feminism is NOT the Story of my
Life "even when the women whom I interviewed and with whom I had
been speaking with informally knew little or nothing about feminist
positions, they had a gut sense that Feminism was not talking about
their lives (Fox-Genovese, 1996, p. 2)." Kellyanne Fitzpatrick pushes
this sentiment even further questioning whether, in the modern economic
environment, "A twentysomething female college graduate wondering why
she pays for entitlements she'll never receive may have more in common
with men her own age than with older women who rely upon these
entitlements (Clark, p. 178)."
Conclusion
It is nothing new to say that identities are shaped by our
experiences and interactions with people close to us, but feminist
identity seems to be strongly shaped around one issue: motherhood. For
radicals, it was the rejection of enslavement to a child that shaped
their identity. For Second Wave mothers, it was the hope and drive to
make the world a more equitable place for their daughters. Third Wave
women have formed their identity in an environment, in which, equality
is assumed and their "mothers" are no longer addressing issues that are
relevant to them. Sheila Tobias, a Feminist author, cites this growth
from near-unanimity in the First Wave to slight differences in the
Second Wave to a new, complete, dispersal of cohesion as the death of
the movement. She fears that Feminists are in danger of remarginalizing
themselves when they have gotten so close to their goal of complete
equality (Ackelsberg, 1998, p. 725).
The solution seems to me to lie in the formation of a Fourth Wave
that would re-unify women and celebrate the ideal of diversity and
freedom of thought. This time the celebration would not be of freedom
from men but freedom from themselves. In re-unifying and accepting their
differences they might be able to continue the forward progress and halt
not only the male backlash that Susan Faludi postulated, in her
manifesto Backlash, but also the backlash of women that feel
ostracized because they have different views and feel underrepresented
in the movement.
--Jeremiah Stevens
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